We previously explained a Cafcass’ role in your court case surrounding your child. Now we’ve put together some top tips on speaking to a Cafcass officer about your case:
Be polite
Our number one tip throughout your case, no matter your personal views on the Cafcass officer and their recommendations, is to keep a civil and polite relationship with the officer.
Be prepared
There is nothing worse after an important meeting or telephone call with the Cafcass officer, than kicking yourself for forgetting to mention a really important point. So, we suggest that before any meeting, you make a few bullet points of the most important things you want to say.
Keep communication concise
Do not bombard the Cafcass officer with telephone calls and emails. Keep your communication with them to the important points you want to make.
Stick to the facts
Try and stick to the facts of what has happened to you and your children. Don’t fall into the trap of assuming things that have happened or joining the dots. Just present the things you know have happened.
Keep it amicable
Do not unnecessarily criticise the other parent. Bad mouthing your ex is unlikely to help your case. In fact, it may harm your case.
Take the advice you’re given
Take on board any recommendations from the Cafcass officer of things you can do to help your children.
Remember to try and build a good working relationship with them, even if you disagree with what they say. The Cafcass officer is the ‘eyes and the ears’ of the Judge.
If you need any further guidance on how to deal with your case, please get in touch.