The publication of a new judicial toolkit marks a significant step forward in ensuring children feel heard in family court proceedings. Traditionally, Judges have been hesitant to write directly to children, fearing they might say the wrong thing or that drafting such a letter would be too time consuming. However, research highlights the crucial role direct communication plays in a child’s ability to understand and accept court decisions affecting their lives.
Why Judges Should Write to Children
Children involved in family court cases often express feelings of being left out of the process. Studies show that when children feel heard and understood, they are more likely to accept decisions, even if the outcome isn’t what they hoped for. Writing to children ensures they receive a clear and accurate account of what was decided, why, and how their views were considered.
Moreover, a letter from the Judge provides children with a tangible record of their case, which can be revisited in the future to help them make sense of their life story.
The Toolkit: A Practical Guide for Judges
To support judges in this important task, a newly developed toolkit provides:
- Evidence on children’s experiences in court
- Guidance on language, tone, and format
- Examples of judicial letters to children
- A framework for structuring a letter effectively
By offering clear guidance, the toolkit removes barriers that may have previously discouraged Judges from writing to children.
A Cultural Shift in Family Court Proceedings
The aim is to make judicial letters to children the norm rather than the exception. By doing so, the justice system can demonstrate greater care, transparency, and respect for the rights of children, ultimately fostering trust in the legal process.